Emotional Regulation

Resources & Articles

  • You’re Not Meant to Do This Alone: The Power of Community for Emotional Health

    You’re Not Meant to Do This Alone: The Power of Community for Emotional Health

    Over the last few months, I’ve written about tools that we can use to help ourselves feel more emotionally regulated, particularly in a polarizing social-political climate. We’ve explored why we react with big emotions, ways to calm down and self-regulate when activated, and how to listen to others when it’s outside of our comfort…

  • How to Calm Down When You’re Activated: Emotional Regulation Tools That Actually Work

    How to Calm Down When You’re Activated: Emotional Regulation Tools That Actually Work

    A few weeks ago I wrote about why we react the way we do when we are triggered and briefly explained how we can move out our window of tolerance into hyperarousal or hypo-arousal when we are activated. Today we’re getting practical, because understanding why we get activated is only half the equation. The…

  • Why Do I React That Way? Understanding Your Emotional Triggers in a Polarized World

    Why Do I React That Way? Understanding Your Emotional Triggers in a Polarized World

    You scroll past a headline and your chest tightens. Someone at dinner says something you disagree with and you feel your jaw clench. Or maybe it’s the opposite; you go quiet, feel yourself go numb, and check out of a conversation you know matters to you. Sound familiar? You’re Not Overreacting, You’re Wired This…