relationships

Resources & Articles

  • Things We Don’t Say Out Loud: Taboo Topics to Bring to Your Therapist

    Things We Don’t Say Out Loud: Taboo Topics to Bring to Your Therapist

    We’ve previously written about how you don’t have to be in crisis to benefit from psychotherapy, proposing instead that regular and consistent psychotherapy can function as a kind of self-care or protective factor for maintaining your mental health. People often wonder what to talk about in therapy if there’s nothing outwardly “wrong” or “not…

  • The Art of Listening: How Active Listening Transforms Relationships

    The Art of Listening: How Active Listening Transforms Relationships

    Think about the last time you felt truly heard. Not just tolerated while you talked or nodded at while someone waited for their turn, but actually heard and genuinely felt like the other person had received what you said? How long ago was that? And more importantly, how often do you offer that to…

  • Connection And Play: Essentials for “A Life Worth Living”

    Connection And Play: Essentials for “A Life Worth Living”

    Last week, I had the pleasure of speaking to nearly 100 undergrad students at the University of Washington. A dear friend of mine is a professor of religion and he invited me to speak to his class on the topic of what makes “a life worth living.” The basic premise is, as the course…